All relationships have one law. Never make the one you love feel alone, especially when you’re there. –thelovebits.com
We were in Southern California watching my husband’s family open gifts and I got a text from my brother stating that my Aunt Sandie was going to be at my dad’s for Christmas. I didn’t think she was going to attend so I didn’t get her a gift. I felt guilty for not having a gift for her since there’s always an expectation to give gifts to whoever shows up on Christmas. We did a small gift exchange with her and it seemed to go unnoticed that we didn’t purchase anything for her.
The next morning we were eating breakfast and my aunt says “Erin, I have to tell you something.” I braced myself not knowing what to expect. “When you called me during the pandemic to check up on me that meant so much to me. You were the only person to check in on me and I want to tell you how much I appreciate it and I love you.” She said it in tears, which brought me to tears and I realized that I had already given her a gift. The gift of time, attention, and caring about her well-being. That meant more to her than any item I could have bought her.
Giving time and attention to others is how we nurture relationships. Relationships are the life vest that keeps us afloat in the sea of life. They are what buoys us up to keep our head above water to keep going. Instead of giving items, give others your time, attention, and care for their well-being. Pick up the phone and call someone. Send them a text. Let them know you’re thinking about them.
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